Monday, December 14, 2009

Wedding Program In Memory Of Would It Be Appropriate To Add My Late Husbands Name To My Wedding Programs Under The "in Loving Memory ?

Would it be appropriate to add my late husbands name to my wedding programs under the "in loving memory ? - wedding program in memory of

I have grown children and a grandchild on my late husband. He asked if it would be appropriate to have the memorial and our daughter, my father and my brother? My boyfriend and children have no problem with him. I just want reasonable.

22 comments:

Brave new girl said...

First, I think it is appropriate, the names of family members of members who were mentioned in a wedding program. I know I'm in the minority, but I see nothing wrong with mentioning his name in this section of the program, especially if the others are also mentioned. Her husband gave her son, who has her grandson. It was a big part of his past, and you have done today. It has nothing to do with the practice or not, that they possessed with the past. He is someone who gives shape to his life and has fond memories of him.

I'm sure it would mean a lot for their children to have their names there. If your boyfriend is so good, so do not see why not.

DigitalD... said...

I believe that women are responding to your question here, your customers have mixed reactions to the program in the. I believe it is necessary to write the program, it is completely removed. You and your children know that your husband is probably glad that they have moved and are happy again. But keep it to yourself instead of saying, all the guests on the show. This day was about you and the marriage of her new husband and not his one-thirty.

fizzy stuff said...

No, it is not appropriate. It is noteworthy that you maintain your memories with him, but please find another way to bring it in private expression. His marriage to this man is that man, and has nothing to do with her late husband. Sorry, but very deficient.

In fact, "in memory", a gesture to the memory of a person. If you are married with honor and in memory of her late husband? No, youre not. So please leave your name with your marriage.

Barbara B said...

Honey, which is obviously not for the death of her late husband. And I'm sure he was a prince among men - but that's no excuse. As much as her husband was too late - he died. Let it rest in peace and move on with her life with her new husband. Otherwise, do a favor to her friend and the marriage declared null and void.

If you can not let go, then your current boyfriend to do. It can not be married to two men - even if one of them died.

sara said...

I do not want from her late husband in the program.
even if their children were really her friend. For a lucky day for you and your friend will, I think, adding its name to the men would be difficult to stop the other guests and make the atmosphere.

If your children want to keep their surnames, defiantly use this name, but if I did not mention, was so touching as it should be.

HIS! said...

Even though I know it is not so, it looks like you are not in mourning for the moment. The fact is that her first husband is, their memories forever and will always love you. But this man again have a chance without competing with the past. If I did not assign a portion of memory, if I were you. It's no use.

As a young bride, I see no point. You want to have their grandparents or parents who left the marriage and are unhappy because they can not be there. But when we get older, death becomes part of our lives. And even if it still hurts the same, it is somehow a little different somehow.

Enjoy the day and not mourn the past. I have just mentioned. They are the heart and the hearts of those they loved. This is important.

Miss_Au... said...

It would be embarrassing and inappropriate. Although the concept of the memorials given to a marriage (not a funeral, is a happy event) nor anyone I know, I want to say something generic like forever: "In loving memory of all those with us in spirit." For all without offending anyone.

ceingleh... said...

While her friends and their children, it is nice to her situation are appropriate. On the day of your wedding is you and your immediate family, so if that's what we all agree, then so be it. You do not need a complete stranger, in the opinion of the time. Good luck and congratulations!

Keri said...

Hmm ... I could anyway, I would say that as long as your husband goes with him, then yes, but honestly, I do not think you should. It's nice and all, but you really want this day is about you and your husband and you want him to feel he is all for you secretly feel bad, but not tell, because he knows that it is important that them. I would not.

Eibhlinn Savage said...

Only one thing: the name of her late husband would be with the names of those who are passed on? If you have a list of people who think it is discharged below if you are on your own. I believe that marriage should be about death, and perhaps not the best choice for the "memory".
But it's really up to you. If your friend agrees, it is their biggest worry is gone.

Arielle H said...

Of course! It is one of Ur friends, and thus one of the happy and enjoy list.be wedding.if UR or has left the name suggests, this would be an insult to the SRU adult children and grandchildren of the Child are being violated or ignored his mother's name / Grandfather . obtuse to not recognize his new wife of a deceased spouse, especially in the case of U, the children / grandchildren, your hand or in love, and B4 have been and this is not This is life! Congratulations to the second marriage of the Uruguay Round, which is as happy as ur first! Were (in ur situation, btw Ive, and in doing gr8!)

Parada said...

It is a marriage, not a service in memory of the deceased before! Anyway, a toast at the reception "absent friends and those who have preceded us, but that's all. Without even mentioning the names of. Her husband dead spirit does not matter to her wedding bride and groom!

sunsetsh... said...

While her friend agrees, I think it's perfectly fine. You have the right to have a past, and knows his family. They have a life and a family with her husband, after all. I think it's perfectly okay to pay him homage.

Seafoam Green said...

Oh my God. Frankly, if I was invited, I would be horrified to see is her marriage to her new husband, in memory of her late husband.

Aimes said...

I say that you want and your new husband. But a serious talk with him about it and make sure to say what you prefer to "make you happy, but what really excited.

B2BJune2... said...

I do not think it appropriate. You are going to do with her future husband feels second place. Reconsider this very seriously.

Beverly S said...

How would you feel if it were reversed? He wanted to speak to his deceased wife. I think it is a terrible idea for a wedding!

Amanda B said...

I think you should speak. Who cares what others think? While it is important to you, then his name on the program.

Brenn said...

Nope! How are the family of the will of her husband? I think you should find another time and place of honor, not your wedding day.

♥Invisible Pink Unicorn♥ said...

I would even say very inappropriate --

Libby said...

I think it would be nice. He is the father of her children after all. And he wants you like to find that love again, right?

diamondc... said...

Please do not mention the dead bury their marriage.

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